 
 |  | Robert Needlman, M.D., F.A.A.P. Vice President, Developmental & Behavioral Pediatrics
QUESTIONS ANSWERED BY DR. NEEDLMAN
- Adolescence
- Parents Disagree about Giving Young Teen Responsibility - 09/23/02
 Prom Night Jitters - 04/18/02
 Adolescent with Unusually Smelly Sweat - 02/08/02
 11- Year-Old Doesn't Care about Hygiene - 11/13/01

- Adoption
- Telling Preschooler about Her Biological Father - 12/19/01
 Adopting Child with Possible Developmental Problems - 11/29/01

- Aggression
- Toddler Is Aggressive, but Not Angry - 02/06/02
 Three-Year-Old Beats Up Her Dolls - 11/16/01
 Living with a Controlling Three-Year-Old - 08/23/01
 Defiant and Angry Three-Year-Old - 07/30/01
 A Toddler's Emotional Response to Domestic Violence - 05/23/01
 Acting Up in Preschool - 05/10/01
 Nine-Year-Old HavingTrouble Getting Along with Parent and Classmates - 04/10/01
 Overbearing Three-Year-Old - 04/10/01
 A Child Who Is Very Angry When Picked Up from Preschool - 04/02/01
 An Energetic and Destructive One-Year-Old - 01/28/01
 Toddler Who Bites - 10/25/00
 Handling A Two Year Old Who Hits And Bites - 05/25/00

- Allergies
- Food Allergies and Behavioral Problems - 01/17/02
 Four-Year-Old Biting His Fingers - 11/13/01
 What To Do For A Bee Sting - 06/01/00

- Attention Problems
- Daughter with ADHD, Tourette's, and Impulsive Behavior - 02/26/02
 Food Allergies and Behavioral Problems - 01/17/02
 Tips for Talking about Attention Problems - 11/19/01
 Four-Year-Old Suddenly Having Trouble Focusing - 11/07/01
 Five-Year-Old on Adderall and Angry - 10/01/01
 Stimulants Effect on Growth - 08/29/01
 Time It Takes for ADHD Medication to Take Effect - 07/23/01
 Hyperactive at 10 Months - 05/23/01
 Supercharged Two-Year-Old - 05/23/01
 Attention Problems and Unusual Movements - 05/10/01
 New Bad Behavior in a Good 10-Year-Old - 04/10/01
 An Immature Three-Year-Old - 04/06/01
 A Five-Year-Old Who Won't Stop Talking - 04/06/01
 Ritalin and Delayed Growth - 04/06/01
 ADHD-Inattentive Subtype - 03/15/01
 A Talkative Seven-Year-Old - 02/20/01
 Encouraging An Active 6 Year Old To Read - 05/28/00

- Autism
- Three-Year-Old Having Accidents and Autism Tendencies - 11/13/01
 Four-Year-Old Cannot Communicate in Sentences - 11/07/01
 Autism and Mother's Age - 08/23/01
 Toilet Training an Autistic Child - 04/02/01

- Baby Supplies
- The Dangers of Walkers - 07/23/01
 Tossing Food off the Highchair - 04/06/01

- Babysitting
- 11-Year-Old Babysitting Younger Sibling - 07/23/01

- Bed-Wetting and Daytime Wetting
- Seven-Year-Old Secretly Wearing Baby Brother's Diapers - 11/29/01
 Eight-Year-Old Upset with Custody Arrangement - 11/13/01
 Six-Year-Old Uncomfortable Using the Potty - 11/13/01
 Preschool Girl Wetting Her Pants - 11/13/01
 Bed-Wetting and Zoloft - 08/24/01
 11-Year-Old with a Wetting Problem - 06/12/01
 New Big Brother Wetting His Pants - 04/06/01
 Potty Trained Four-Year-Old Wetting the Bed - 04/06/01
 Daytime Wetting in a 2½-Year-Old - 04/02/01
 Potty-Trained Preschooler Having Daytime Accidents - 03/15/01
 Potty Regression - 03/15/01
 A 10-Year-Old Who Soils His Pants - 02/28/01

- Birth Order
- Worried about Son Being an Only Child - 07/23/01
 Every Child Has a Special Place - 05/10/01
 Irresponsible Firstborn - 05/10/01

- Brains and Thinking
- Supporting Siblings Who Learn Differently - 04/11/02
 Wanting Your Child to Be above Average - 02/26/02
 Sensory Integration - 02/26/02
 Educational Videos for Babies - 02/06/02
 Child Asking Questions She Knows the Answers To - 12/21/01
 Sources for Earliest Memories - 09/11/01
 Helping Infants Learn to Entertain Themselves - 05/29/01
 Using Computer Games to Build Analytic Skills - 05/29/01
 Teaching a Child Right from Wrong - 02/20/01

- Breastfeeding: General
- Soymilk for Nursing Mothers - 04/11/02
 As Nursing Ends, Menstruation Returns - 02/06/02
 Three-Month-Old Feeding Best at Night - 12/21/01
 Finding the Best Feeding Schedule - 06/13/01

- Breastfeeding: Problems
- Three-Month-Old Feeding Best at Night - 12/21/01

- Breastfeeding: Weaning
- As Nursing Ends, Menstruation Returns - 02/06/02
 Weaning Infant from Bottle and Pacifier at the Same Time - 04/10/01

- Breathing and Respiratory
- Nine-Year-Old Blowing Air out Her Nose - 02/06/02
 Baby Making Wheezing Sounds While Feeding - 01/17/02

- Child Abuse and Neglect
- A Suspicion of Neglect - 04/22/02
 Grandchild Suffering from Abuse - 08/29/01
 Witnessing a Parent on the Verge of Abuse - 05/22/00

- Child Care
- Tackling Toilet Training at Home and at Daycare - 11/13/01
 Others Consider My Son to Be 'Spoiled' - 10/01/01
 Twins Find It Hard to Say Goodbye to Mom - 10/23/00
 To work or not to work? - 10/10/00

- Chores & Jobs
- Parents Disagree about Giving Young Teen Responsibility - 09/23/02

- Constipation
- Worried Constipated Toddler Is Not Growing - 08/29/01
 Constipation in a 14-Month-Old - 07/23/01

- Crying
- Toddler Crying at Night because Her Feet Hurt - 04/11/02
 Crying for No Reason at 20 Months - 05/23/01

- Death and Grieving
- Five-Year-Old Worried about Death - 10/01/01

- Depression
- Daughter with ADHD, Tourette's, and Impulsive Behavior - 02/26/02
 Nine-Year-Old Threatening to Kill Himself - 07/31/01

- Development: How It Happens
- Wondering When Babies Start to See - 05/09/01
 Two-Year-Old Climber - 10/13/00
 Concern About Delayed Developmental Milestones - 06/11/00

- Discipline
- Smearing Feces at 21 Months - 10/01/01
 Preteens Have No Respect for Authority - 08/24/01
 Toddler Won't Let Mom Sit Down - 05/29/01
 Hard to Watch Boyfriend Cater to His Daughter's Every Whim - 04/02/01
 Theories And Books About Discipline - 05/28/00

- Discipline: Specific Techniques
- Living with a Controlling Three-Year-Old - 08/23/01
 Overbearing Three-Year-Old - 04/10/01
 An Immature Three-Year-Old - 04/06/01
 Child Who Bites Himself after Being Punished - 03/15/01
 A Born Negotiator - 02/20/01
 Dealing With A Bossy 4 Year Old - 05/23/00

- Divorce
- An 'Incomplete' Family - 02/08/02
 Moving Away from Daughter's Father - 12/21/01
 Telling Preschooler about Her Biological Father - 12/19/01
 Helping Daughter Have Relationship with Half-Sibling - 11/20/01
 Eight-Year-Old Upset with Custody Arrangement - 11/13/01
 Preschool Girl Wetting Her Pants - 11/13/01
 Starting Preschool While Parents Finalize Custody Issues - 11/07/01
 Three-Year-Old Wants a Father - 11/07/01
 Teenage Daughter Wants to Live with Her 'Real' Father - 10/01/01
 Parents Want to Wait to Separate - 08/29/01
 Toddler Wakes Up Crying Every Night - 07/23/01
 Bedtime Wars in Divorced Family - 06/12/01
 When Sleeping Alone is Traumatic - 04/10/01
 Hard to Watch Boyfriend Cater to His Daughter's Every Whim - 04/02/01
 Staying Together for the Sake of the Children - 10/26/00

- Drugs and Alcohol
- Prom Night Jitters - 04/18/02

- Ear Infections
- Hearing Assessment for Child with a Language Deficit - 12/21/01
 Chronic Ear Infections Make Four-Year-Old Cranky - 02/28/01

- Ear Problems: Miscellaneous
- Normal Hearing Test Results, Abnormal Hearing - 02/06/02
 Hearing Assessment for Child with a Language Deficit - 12/21/01
 Newborn Doesn't Startle at Noise - 06/13/01
 Worried about Newborn's Hearing - 05/29/01
 One-Month-Old Unresponsive to Sounds - 05/29/01
 When a Four-Year-Old Needs Surgery - 05/09/01

- Eating Disorders
- Tiny Five-Year-Old - 11/08/01
 Self-Induced Vomiting at 17 Months - 11/07/01
 School-Related Stomachaches - 06/12/01
 Three-Year-Old Vomits to Lose Weight - 04/10/01
 Worried Friends Are Underweight - 04/06/01

- Emotions: What They Mean
- Sensory Integration - 02/26/02
 Toddler Is Aggressive, but Not Angry - 02/06/02
 Sweet Six-Month-Old Suddenly Irritable - 11/19/01
 Gifted 12-Year-Old Prone to Meltdowns - 11/16/01
 Young Child Has a Hard Time in New Situations - 11/13/01
 Preschool Girl Wetting Her Pants - 11/13/01
 Toddler Upset When Parents Hug - 11/07/01
 Assuring Children They Are Safe in the Face of Uncertainty - 10/01/01
 Trouble Getting Child to Eat or Talk about How He Feels - 10/01/01
 Helping Children Feel More Secure in Times of National Crisis - 10/01/01
 Child Wants to Stay Close to Mom - 10/01/01
 Five-Year-Old Worried about Death - 10/01/01
 Toddler Troubled by Change - 10/01/01
 Leaving Baby at Home While Traveling - 10/01/01
 Hiding My Son's 'Blankie' - 08/24/01
 Traveling without Baby - 07/23/01
 Three-Year-Old Girl Giving Mom the Cold Shoulder - 06/13/01
 A Toddler's Emotional Response to Domestic Violence - 05/23/01
 Crying for No Reason at 20 Months - 05/23/01
 Preschooler Who Hates to Say 'Bye - 04/06/01
 Benefits of Therapeutic Touch for Newborns - 04/02/01
 A Child Who Is Very Angry When Picked Up from Preschool - 04/02/01
 Avoiding Meltdowns - 03/15/01
 Homesick 10-Year-Old - 10/31/00
 A Mercurial 14-Month-Old - 10/30/00
 Giving an Aunt the Silent Treatment - 10/20/00

- Encopresis
- Five-Year-Old Soiling His Pants 10 Times a Day - 04/11/02
 Bowel Movement Accidents at Four - 05/23/01
 A 10-Year-Old Who Soils His Pants - 02/28/01

- Entertaining Your Baby
- Playing with Baby - 06/13/01
 Helping Infants Learn to Entertain Themselves - 05/29/01
 Benefits of Therapeutic Touch for Newborns - 04/02/01

- Eyes
- Newborns Eyes Look Gray - 12/21/01
 Wondering When Babies Start to See - 05/09/01

- Fathering
- Three-Year-Old Wants a Father - 11/07/01
 Concerned about Introducing Seven-Year-Old Son to Boyfriend - 04/02/01
 Hard to Watch Boyfriend Cater to His Daughter's Every Whim - 04/02/01
 Parents Have Different Views about Daughter Wearing Makeup - 04/02/01
 Frustration and Negotiation with Young Children - 05/24/00
 Does Bribery Work as a Toddler Tactic? - 05/21/00

- Fears
- Three-Year-Old Afraid of Clowns - 07/24/02
 Assuring Children They Are Safe in the Face of Uncertainty - 10/01/01
 Helping Children Feel More Secure in Times of National Crisis - 10/01/01
 Five-Year-Old Worried about Death - 10/01/01
 Coping with Siblings in the Military - 10/01/01
 Two-Year-Old Frightened by the News - 10/01/01
 Preschooler Overwhelmed by Fears - 06/13/01
 Scared of Insects - 05/29/01
 Four-Year-Old Cries over Little Things - 04/10/01
 Fear of Exams in an Eight-Year-Old - 04/06/01
 Chronic Stomachaches in a Six-Year-Old - 04/06/01
 Homesick 10-Year-Old - 10/31/00
 Bad Dreams - 10/20/00
 Dealing with Fear of Differences - 10/17/00

- Feeding Development
- 11-Month-Old Eats and Eats - 09/23/02
 Sippy Cups and Speech - 04/22/02
 Pica: Eating Non-Food Stuff - 02/26/02
 Three-Month-Old Feeding Best at Night - 12/21/01
 Two-Year-Old Eating Poorly and Vomiting Often - 12/19/01

- Feeding Premature Infants
- Newborn with a Quivering Tongue - 08/29/01

- Feeding Supplies
- Tossing Food off the Highchair - 04/06/01

- Fever: Overview
- Toddler Shaking and Twitching Like a Newborn - 12/19/01

- Food Allergies
- Wired on Red Dye - 02/26/02
 Food Allergies and Behavioral Problems - 01/17/02
 Tiny Five-Year-Old - 11/08/01
 Sick on Milk at 18 Months - 05/23/01

- Formula Feeding
- Baby Making Wheezing Sounds While Feeding - 01/17/02
 Three-Month-Old Feeding Best at Night - 12/21/01
 Finding the Best Feeding Schedule - 06/13/01
 Pablum in the Nighttime Bottle - 05/29/01
 Sick on Milk at 18 Months - 05/23/01
 Weaning Infant from Bottle and Pacifier at the Same Time - 04/10/01
 Baby Is Painfully Gassy - 04/06/01
 Soy vs.Cow's-Milk Formulas - 10/11/00
 A Three-Month-Old Eager Eater - 10/08/00

- Friends and Peers
- Prom Night Jitters - 04/18/02
 Appropriate Age for a Sleepover - 04/11/02
 Nine-Year-Old Hates Team Sports - 02/06/02
 In Love at Age Four - 01/17/02
 Older Sibling Wants to Play Alone with His Friends - 11/29/01
 School-Related Stomachaches - 06/12/01
 Baby Sister has No One to Play with at Family Gatherings - 05/23/01
 New Kid Being Picked On - 05/23/01
 Standing Up to Bullies - 05/23/01
 Preschooler Who Hates to Say 'Bye - 04/06/01
 Six-Year-Old Son Coerced into Playing 'Secret Game' - 04/02/01
 2½-Year-Old Bullied at Playgroup - 03/15/01
 Bossy Granddaughter Has No Friends - 10/14/00

- GI Problems: Miscellaneous
- Yellow Stools in an 11-Month-Old - 11/07/01
 Bowel Movement Accidents at Four - 05/23/01
 Chronic Stomachaches in a Six-Year-Old - 04/06/01
 Baby Is Painfully Gassy - 04/06/01

- Genital Issues
- Inguinal Hernia in a Premature Infant - 02/06/02
 Explaining Circumcision to a Four-Year-Old - 11/29/01
 Varicocele in a 13-Year-Old - 11/13/01
 Talking about Penis Size - 11/07/01
 When Sperm Production Starts - 07/23/01

- Getting Pregnant
- Wanting to Be Pregnant at 16 - 01/03/02

- Grandparents
- Eight-Year-Old Upset with Custody Arrangement - 11/13/01
 Afraid Infant Isn't Warm Enough - 11/07/01
 Family Members Argue over Baby's Sleep Habit - 06/12/01
 Worried Grandma Spoils Him - 05/23/01
 A Six-Year-Old Who Wants to Stay at Grandma's House - 05/10/01
 When Grandma Overdoes It - 05/09/01
 A Mother-In-Law Who Thinks She Knows Best - 04/02/01

- Growth and Growth Charts
- 11-Month-Old Eats and Eats - 09/23/02
 Foods to Grow On - 12/19/01
 Tiny Five-Year-Old - 11/08/01
 Concerned about a Short, Heavy Girl - 11/08/01
 Worried Constipated Toddler Is Not Growing - 08/29/01
 Growing Pains - 08/23/01
 Concerns That Swaddling Hinders Growth - 06/13/01

- Habit Problems
- Pica: Eating Non-Food Stuff - 02/26/02
 Constantly Reminding Children to Wear their Seatbelts - 01/17/02
 Child Asking Questions She Knows the Answers To - 12/21/01
 11- Year-Old Doesn't Care about Hygiene - 11/13/01
 Four-Year-Old Biting His Fingers - 11/13/01
 Nine-Year-Old Still Fond of His Blanket - 11/07/01
 Toddler Troubled by Change - 10/01/01
 Hiding My Son's 'Blankie' - 08/24/01
 Toddler Has a Blinking Tic - 08/23/01
 Lost Pacifier Makes for Lost Sleep - 06/12/01
 A Ten-Year-Old Who Still Sucks His Thumb - 05/29/01
 Thumb-Sucking and Hair-Pulling - 03/15/01
 A Toddler Who Blinks Often - 02/20/01
 A 3 Year Old Who Bites Her Nails - 05/21/00

- Handedness
- Left-Handed Child Forced to Use Right Hand in School - 11/16/01
 Handedness: Sources of Information - 08/24/01

- Health Promotion
- Sick with Baby at Home - 04/11/02
 Bathing Young Children: When and How Often - 12/19/01
 11- Year-Old Doesn't Care about Hygiene - 11/13/01

- Healthy Eating
- 11-Month-Old Eats and Eats - 09/23/02
 Tofu for Toddlers - 04/11/02
 Wired on Red Dye - 02/26/02
 Pica: Eating Non-Food Stuff - 02/26/02
 Foods to Grow On - 12/19/01
 Worries about Underweight Toddler - 06/12/01

- Holidays
- Snooping, then Lying about It - 12/17/01
 Dad Unsure How to Handle Santa Issue - 06/12/01
 Baby Sister has No One to Play with at Family Gatherings - 05/23/01

- Holidays: Fall
- Not Happy with Halloween Costume Options - 10/01/01
 Baby Sister has No One to Play with at Family Gatherings - 05/23/01

- Holidays: Winter
- Snooping, then Lying about It - 12/17/01
 Dad Unsure How to Handle Santa Issue - 06/12/01
 Baby Sister has No One to Play with at Family Gatherings - 05/23/01

- Insects: Bites and Stings
- What To Do For A Bee Sting - 06/01/00

- Language: Talking and Understanding
- 14-Month-Old Not Talking - 09/23/02
 Preschooler Having Trouble Speaking Smoothly - 07/24/02
 Sippy Cups and Speech - 04/22/02
 Not Sure School Program Is Enough for Child with Speech Delay - 02/08/02
 Hearing Assessment for Child with a Language Deficit - 12/21/01
 Preschooler Prefers 'Baby Talk' - 12/19/01
 Four-Year-Old Cannot Communicate in Sentences - 11/07/01
 Spanish-Speaking Child in English-Speaking Day Care - 10/01/01
 Puzzling Talk from a Toddler - 06/13/01
 Very Verbal at Two - 05/23/01
 Tongue Tie - 05/10/01
 Only Speaking Ten Words at Two Years - 05/09/01
 Bilingual baby - 04/10/01
 Bilingual Baby - 02/20/01
 A Two-Year-Old of Few Words - 10/20/00
 Tongue-Tied Toddler - 10/16/00
 A 17 Month Boy With Few Words - 06/08/00
 Problems With Pronunciation - 06/08/00
 Learning Words: Limited Vocabulary In A 2-year-old - 06/03/00

- Mealtime Behavior
- 11-Month-Old Eats and Eats - 09/23/02
 Three-Year-Old Vomits to Lose Weight - 04/10/01
 Tossing Food off the Highchair - 04/06/01

- Medicines
- Four-Year-Old Biting His Fingers - 11/13/01
 Five-Year-Old on Adderall and Angry - 10/01/01
 Stimulants Effect on Growth - 08/29/01
 Ritalin and Delayed Growth - 04/06/01

- Menstrual Issues
- As Nursing Ends, Menstruation Returns - 02/06/02

- Mental Health Care
- Sensory Integration - 02/26/02
 Daughter with ADHD, Tourette's, and Impulsive Behavior - 02/26/02
 Child Having Extremely Violent Nightmares - 02/06/02
 Food Allergies and Behavioral Problems - 01/17/02
 Seven-Year-Old Secretly Wearing Baby Brother's Diapers - 11/29/01
 Young Child Has a Hard Time in New Situations - 11/13/01
 Self-Induced Vomiting at 17 Months - 11/07/01
 Nine-Year-Old Threatening to Kill Himself - 07/31/01
 Five-Year-Old Obsessing about Things - 07/23/01
 17-Year-Old Cutting Himself - 06/12/01
 Fear of Exams in an Eight-Year-Old - 04/06/01
 A Child Who Is Very Angry When Picked Up from Preschool - 04/02/01
 Child Who Bites Himself after Being Punished - 03/15/01
 Seven-Year-Old Wearing Mother's Stockings - 03/08/01
 Bossy Granddaughter Has No Friends - 10/14/00

- Misbehavior: Miscellaneous
- Three-Year-Old Runs Wild in Stores and at Parties - 04/11/02
 Smearing Feces at 21 Months - 10/01/01
 Nine-Year-Old Won't Listen to Parents - 06/13/01
 Ten-Year-Old Taking a Long Time to Do Everything - 05/29/01
 Peeing in the Wrong Places - 05/23/01
 New Bad Behavior in a Good 10-Year-Old - 04/10/01
 Chronic Ear Infections Make Four-Year-Old Cranky - 02/28/01
 Dealing with a Stubborn Three-Year-Old - 10/19/00
 Bossy Granddaughter Has No Friends - 10/14/00
 Tattoo Troubles - 10/12/00

- Motor Development
- Eight-Month-Old Using One Side More Than the Other - 04/22/02
 Nine-Month-Old's Right Foot Turns Out - 04/22/02
 Infant Making Fists Repeatedly - 11/20/01
 Outlook for Child with Dyspraxia - 11/13/01
 Different Ways to Get to Walking - 06/12/01
 Four-Month-Old Loves to Stand Up - 05/29/01
 Infant Swinging His Head Back and Forth - 04/25/01
 Worried about A Lack of Motor Skills - 04/25/01
 Eight-Month-Old Used to Sit But Won't Now - 04/10/01

- Mouth and Throat Problems
- Tongue Tie - 05/10/01

- Newborn Care
- Sick with Baby at Home - 04/11/02
 Newborns Eyes Look Gray - 12/21/01
 Newborn with a Third Nipple - 12/21/01
 Concerned about Infant in a Very Hot Apartment - 12/19/01
 Treating Cradle Cap - 11/07/01
 Newborn Stretching Often - 11/07/01
 Newborn with a Quivering Tongue - 08/29/01
 Blue-Eyed Babies - 10/09/00

- Newborns: Problems
- Inguinal Hernia in a Premature Infant - 02/06/02
 Concerned about Infant in a Very Hot Apartment - 12/19/01
 Treating Cradle Cap - 11/07/01

- Overweight and Underweight
- Two-Year-Old Eating Poorly and Vomiting Often - 12/19/01
 Tiny Five-Year-Old - 11/08/01
 Concerned about a Short, Heavy Girl - 11/08/01
 Parent Wonders about Infant's Weight - 06/12/01
 Three-Year-Old Vomits to Lose Weight - 04/10/01
 Worried Friends Are Underweight - 04/06/01
 "Good" Weight for an Eight-Year-Old - 10/07/00

- Parenting
- Supporting Siblings Who Learn Differently - 04/11/02
 Constantly Reminding Children to Wear their Seatbelts - 01/17/02
 Deciding to Work or Stay Home with Young Child
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