 | hi, i am a female who was abused sexually, physically, and emotionally by my ex. boyfriend, When we broke up i had no friends because i wasnt allowed any while i was in the relationship. I just want to be brave enough to approach someone, and maybe have a friend i can talk to and rely on, because right now i have nobody. I am a normal person, i am pretty, i am kind, but i am shy as hell, the abuse traumatized me, people scare me, rejection scares me... I have been through counselling, but i still cant seem to make any friends, do you guys have ANY suggestions on how i could meet people more effectivley? I have tried just talking to someone, but usually i get to uncomfortable talking, so they leave. I am desperate, all i do in life is work and go to school.... work, school after work... work again. My parents are my friends, but i want a best friend yah know? hmm... well... thanx |