 | My (now)husband and i met 1 year ago. we found out 2mnths after being together i was pregnant---we have twins that are now 4mnths old (2 girls). Recently he was arrested driving with meth. He was sent to jail spent less than 24hrs there, b/c i called his parents and they put 5,000-calateral for him to get out on bail. He won't EVER talk to me about it--He gets mad everytime i bring it up. I smoked when we first met and quit when i found out i was pregnant adn started back up after i had them. He always told me,"if you don't quit i'm gonna go do drugs," i wasn't smoking all but maybe 5 cigg.'s a day and i never did it in front of my kids or him. it's been 1 mnth since he's done it and the day he got out of jail he said "take it easy on me i'm not doing too good" so i didn't give him any crap for what he did. Now i want to talk about it---my family is upset about it. He found some cigg.'s in my purse this afternoon adn blew up broke them all in 1/2 and left (i brought up the drug problem earlier that day, so he was already pist.) I dont' want to leave him, but if he does it again i will, but i don't know how to put up with his temper, he's never hit me, but he yells, and always takes my credit cards when we fight and he left this afternoon. I can go to my parents, but i relaly don't want to and i don't want to leave adn come back---if i leave him it's going to be for good. We had plans to move to FL, but now they're put on hold b/c he got in trouble. I'm so not knowing what to do, please help me!!! My screenname is TwinAngelzNSide2@aol.com---i need someone to talk to really bad....Becki |
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